When you have a baby, it’s inevitable that when you visit family there’ll be people fighting to hold, said baby. No longer is it ‘how are you?’, it’s ‘let me have the baby’ or arms in a ‘hand her over’ position. My husband and I have become secondary when we visit people now. We don’t mind though, she should be enjoying her family. We love seeing how happy having a new baby in the family makes everyone. It is just a funny side effect of having a child (especially with the grandparents).